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The Ninth of Av - Tisha B'Av
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In a Nutshell Mourning the destruction of the Temple and the exile of Israel, we abstain from eating and drinking, bathing, the wearing of leather footwear, and marital relations -- for the night and day of Av 9 (this year, from sundown on
August 9 to nightfall August 10, 2008). It is customary to sit on the floor or on a low seat until after mid-day. Torah study is restricted to laws of mourning, passages describing the destruction of the Temple, and the like. The tefillin are worn only during the afternoon Minchah prayers. Consult a Halachic authority for more specific guidance in observance of this day or read on for the laws in detail.
The Day Before The Ninth of Av
Towards the end of the day, one
should eat the the final meal. At this meal, one should
not partake of two types of cooked food even if they
are of the same variety - e.g., two kinds of noodles.
Even if the cooked food is usually eaten raw, it has
the status of a cooked food in this case.
- It is customary to eat a boiled
egg or lentils at the final meal in sign of mourning.
One should not partake of any other cooked foods
and should eat bread, dairy products, or fruit. Some
follow the custom of eating a piece of bread dipped
in ashes.
It
is customary to eat the final meal while seated
on the floor or on a low stool. According to some, there
is hidden significance in placing a mat or cloth underneath
oneself and not sitting directly on the floor. One need
not remove his shoes before eating the meal.
After
the final meal, if the sun has not yet set, one
may continue eating - provided that one did not
intend or state that he had accepted the fast upon himself.
lf one intended not to eat again because he was full,
however, he can eat again since he had not intended
to accept the fast yet. It is proper to declare or to
intend specifically, that one has not accepted the fast
upon himself until sunset.
The
study of Torah is prohibited on The Ninth of Av, for
the verse (Psalms 19:9) states: The statutes
of G-d are upright, they rejoice the heart, and
one who is mourning is forbidden to rejoice. The custom
is to refrain from studying Torah from noon on the eve
of The Ninth of Av.
Some
people have a custom to eat a full meal - without
meat or wine - in the early afternoon [before
the final meal] so that the fast not cause them harm.
This
custom also serves as a commemoration of the festive
character of both the eve of The Ninth of Av
and The Ninth of Av itself during the period of the
second Bet haMikdash. During this period, the
four fast days which commemorate the destruction of
the first Bet haMikdash were celebrated as holidays,
and the people would eat, drink, and rejoice even on
The Ninth of Av itself. We who have not yet merited
consolation commemorate this festival in remembrance
of what was and what will again be in the future when
the Bet haMikdash is rebuilt -
may it be speedily and in our days. This custom shows
our faith and trust in God and our anticipation of salvation.
The afternoon prayers are recited
earlier than usual, to allow ample time for the final
meal, and Tachanun is omitted since the
verse (Lamentations 1:15) refers to The Ninth
of Av as being a Festival.
On
the eve of The Ninth of Av one should not take
carefree walks in public places in a spirit of lightheartedness,
so that he will not come to laughter and frivolity.
Three
people should not partake of the final meal together.
lf they did so, they should not recite the Grace after
Meals together.
One
may eat as much fresh fruit or vegetables as desired
during the final meal, although some do not eat
vegetable salad as a side dish. One may drink tea or
coffee afterwards.
Any
food which consists of two varieties which are usually
cooked together in one pot is considered to be a single
cooked dish. The pious, however, eat only a salted piece
of dry bread with a cup of water. The Talmud (Ta'anit
30a) records:
This
was the custom of R. Yehudah bar Ilai: On The Day Before The Ninth
of Av they would bring him a dry, salted piece of bread
and he would sit next to the oven [the most unattractive
place in the house (Rashi)] and he would eat it together
with a cup of water, like one whose dead relative was
lying before him. Special instructions for when the fast falls on Sunday and thus begins right after Shabbat, Saturday night. On Shabbat, Saturday afternoon one must finish eating before sunset, we do not eat the egg and bread dipped in ashes as on Shabbat we may not observe mourning customs. Recite the evening prayers (Maariv), and include the usual Shabbat night insertion of "Ata Chonantanu". Those who do not recite the evening prayers should recite the following verse:
"Baruch haMavdil ben Kodesh leChol" "Blessed is He Who distinguishes between the holy and the mundane". Havdalah is not recited, but one lights a candle and recites the blessing on the creation of fire (Bore Me'orei Haesh). On Sunday night - The full Havdalah is recited at the conclusion of the fast, however the blessings on the creation of fire and on the spices are omitted.
The laws of
The Ninth of Av
There are five things forbidden
on the Ninth of Av: eating and drinking, washing oneself,
anointing oneself with oil, wearing leather shoes, and
cohabitation.
There
is no difference between the night of the Ninth of Av
and the day. One may eat only before sunset on the eve of the Ninth of Av; twilight is considered
to be night and eating is forbidden.
All
are required to fast on the Ninth of Av, including pregnant
women and nursing mothers. One who is ill, however,
may eat even if his illness is not life-threatening.
However, an ill person should refrain from eating delicacies
and should eat only that which is absolutely necessary
for his physical well-being.
If
the Ninth of Av falls on a Sunday and a sick person
needs to eat during the fast, he should recite Havdalah
before eating [since Havdalah was not recited
the previous night because of the Ninth of Av].
- One
may not rinse his mouth on the Ninth of Av until the
end of the fast.
- Washing
for pleasure is forbidden both in warm and in cold water.
However, if one's hands are dirty, he may wash them.
He may also wash his hands upon arising in the morning
as he does every day, as well as after using the bathroom.
However, he may not wash the entire hand but should
only wash his fingers. While his fingers are still moist,
he may wipe his eyes with them. lf his eyes are dirty,
he may rinse them as he usually does.
- When
cooking and preparing food, one may wash the food since
the intention is not to wash one's hands.
- The
prohibition of wearing shoes applies to those made of
leather. Shoes made of linen or rubber may be worn.
However, if they are covered by leather or if they have
leather soles, they may not be worn. lf one is walking
on a path full of thorns or in an area populated by
gentiles [where his appearance would be ridiculed],
he may wear regular shoes in that place.
It
is permissible to bathe a baby and apply oil to his
skin in the same manner as one usually does.
- All
of the prohibitions mentioned are applicable from sunset
of the eve of the Ninth of Av until the end of the fast.
As
noted earlier, the study of Torah is prohibited on the
Ninth of Av because Torah study brings a person joy.
However, one is permitted to study the third chapter
of tractate Mo'ed Katan which deals with
the laws of mourning and excommunication. One may also
study the Midrash to the Book of Eichah with
its commentaries; and Job with its commentaries, for
these works awaken a sense of sorrow in the reader.
One may also study the chapters of admonition and calamities
recorded in Jeremiah; however, one should
be careful to skip those verses that speak of consolation.
One may also study the aggadah about the Destruction
recorded in tractate Gittin.
- One
should not greet a friend and ask how he is on the Ninth
of Av, and one should not even say "good morning."
lf one is greeted by a friend, however, he should respond
so as not to cause bad feelings, but in a lowered tone
of voice. It is also forbidden to send gifts on the
Ninth of Av.
- It
is customary on the Ninth of Av to refrain from doing
any work which must be done over an extended period
of time, for engaging in such activity distracts one
from feeling a sense of mourning. One should refrain
from this type of work on the night of the Ninth of
Av and until midday the next day. After midday, such
work is not customarily forbidden but nevertheless it
is proper for each person to be stringent with himself
and avoid such work until the fast is over.
- From
the night of the Ninth of Av until midday, one should
sit on the floor or on a low stool less than three handbreadths
high.
One
should avoid walking through the streets or marketplace
so that he will not come to talk idly and thus distract
himself from the sense of mourning. One should surely
avoid activities which might lead to levity.
- Some
observe the custom of not sleeping on a bed on the Ninth
of Av; instead they sleep on mattresses placed on the
floor. In any event, one should vary his sleeping habits;
for example, if one usually sleeps with two pillows
he should use only one. Some people place a stone under
the pillow or mattress as a means of remembering the
Destruction.
- It
is customary to begin only after midday to prepare food
that will be eaten when the fast is over.
- One
should not smell perfumes or spices on the Ninth of
Av, nor smoke, in public.
- One
should not wear fine clothing on the Ninth of Av even
if the clothing is not new.
- Many
observe the custom of washing their floors and cleaning
their houses after midday on the Ninth of Av, in anticipation
of the redemption which we await. Moreover, it is a
tradition that the Mashiach will be born on the
Ninth of Av.
It is said that one who eats or
drinks on the Ninth of Av without having to do so for
health reasons will not merit to see the joy of Jerusalem.
And one who mourns over Jerusalem will merit to see
her happiness, as the verse (Yeshayahu 66:10) promises:
Rejoice with her greatly, all who mourn for her.
Ma'ariv
In
the evening, the regular weekday Ma'ariv service
is said. After Shemoneh Esreh, Kaddish is said
and Eichah - Lamentations - is read,
followed by the recital of Kinot. Following Kinot,
we say V'Attah Kadosh which is followed by
Kaddish. The stanza of Titkabel is omitted
from this Kaddish and from the Kaddish recited
at the end of Shacharit as well. At Minchah,
however, Titkabel is included in the Kaddish.
Titkabel
is omitted because it is a petition that our prayers
be accepted. Since we read in Eichah (3:8) that
"My prayer has been shut off", how can we petition
G-d to accept our prayers if they have been shut off!
Some do not omit Titkabel from the Kaddish
recited after Shemoneh Esreh because Eichah
has not yet been read.
Our
Sages (Eichah Rabbah) write: G-d said [to the
angels at the time of the Destruction]: What does a
mortal king do when he is in mourning? He extinguishes
the lanterns [in his palace]. I too will do the same,
as the verse (Yoel 2:10) states: The sun and
moon have become darkened.
- At night only a single light
is lit at the pulpit of the synagogue and the parochet
is removed from the ark. It is replaced before Minchah.
In many Sephardic communities, it is customary
to extinguish all lights in the synagogue and to light
one small lamp. The chazan then announces the
number of years that have passed since the destruction
of the Beit haMikdash. For example, on the Ninth
of Av of the Hebrew year 5757 (1997), he would announce
that one thousand, nine hundred and twenty-nine years
have passed since the destruction of the second Beit
haMikdash.
In
Sephardic communities and in most Ashkenazic communities
as well, Eichah is read from a printed book rather
than from a scroll and no berachah is recited
before the reading. Ashkenazic communities that follow
the custom of the Vilna Gaon read Eichah from
a parchment scroll and recite the blessing of Al Mikra
Megillah beforehand. When Eichah is read
in the morning, no berachah is recited.
- Rama
writes that each time the word eichah is read
[Le., at the beginning of the chapters], the reader
should raise his voice.
Levush
writes that the custom not to read Eichah from
a parchment scroll - even though the obligation
to read it publicly is greater than that of other megillot
- is based on the fact that Eichah scrolls
were rare. The scribes did not customarily write this
Megillah, as an expression of the yearning and great
anticipation of the time when the Ninth of Av shall
be transformed into a day of rejoicing and happiness.
Hence, because of the shortage of parchment scrolls,
it became customary to read Eichah from a printed
book.
- The
congregation listens attentively to the reader's recitation
of the Megillah. When the verse of Hashivenu is read
[the next to the last verse in Eichah], the congregation
recites the verse aloud followed by the reader. The
reader then reads the last verse whereupon the congregation
repeats Hashivenu once again as does the reader.
lf
the Ninth of Av falls on Saturday night, the prayer
of Vihi No'am is omitted. The theme of this prayer
is the completion of the Mishkan and it is thus
inappropriate on the Ninth of Av when we mourn the destruction.
- V'Attah
Kadosh is recited after reading Eichah
- even when the Ninth of Av does not fall
on a Saturday night. The first verse of this prayer
- "And a redeemer shall come to Zion"
- is omitted, since tradition teaches that the
redemption will not come at night. The verse "And
this is my covenant" is also omitted for we are
forbidden to learn Torah, and so that it does not appear
as if we were establishing a covenant with G-d over
the Destruction.
- One
who is in mourning [sitting shivah]should go
to the synagogue for the reading of Eichah and
for the recital of Kinot. Some rule more stringently
and hold that during the first three days of the seven-day
mourning period, one should not leave the house at all.
This applies particularly to the night of the Ninth
of Av, since only a small number of Kinot are
read in the synagogue then.
Shacharit
- Some follow the custom of omitting
the blessing of "Who provided me with all my needs"
in the morning blessings. This berachah is recited
instead at night, after the fast, when regular shoes
are put on again. Some omit the blessing of "Who
crowns Israel with glory" in the morning and recite
it only when they put on tefillin at Minchah.
Most Ashkenazic communities recite the blessings
in the morning, in the usual manner.
The
large tallit is not worn in the morning, but
the smaller tallit [i.e., the tzitzit usually
worn under the shirt] is worn as usual. We do not put
on tefillin for Shacharit, but put them
on at Minchah instead. The basis for this latter
ruling is the fact that tefillin are referred
to as being our "glory" and on the Ninth of
Av our glory is absent. The source for the former ruling
is the verse in Eichah (2:1 7) which states:
He has carried out his declaration, which the
Targum interprets as "He has torn his tallit,"
a play on the Hebrew words. Some communities have
a custom of donning the tallis and tefillin
at home, reciting the Shema, and then going
to the synagogue for Shacharit. Others don the
tallit and tefillin for Shacharit but
remove them before reading Eichah and reciting
Kinot.
The
Shacharit service is the same as during a regular
weekday except for minor changes which relate to the
fast. When repeating Shemoneh Esreh, the chazan
inserts Anenu between the berachot of
Go'el Yisrael and Refa'enu as is done
on every fast day. Those who follow the Sephardic rite,
recite Anenu in the silent Shemoneh Esreh
in the berachah of Shema Kolenu. Tachanun is
not said on the Ninth of Av since the day is referred
to as being a mo'ed - a holiday. Birkat
kohanim [the priestly blessing] is omitted during
Shacharit but is recited at Minchah.
The
psalm of the day and Ein k'Elokeinu are omitted
at the end of Shacharit. It is customary to say
these prayers before donning tefillin at Minchah.
As regards the insertion of the Nachem prayer
in Shemoneh Esreh: In some communities this is
said by the chazan during the repetition of
the Shemoneh Esreh of Shacharit. In Ashkenazic
communities, Nachem is recited only at Minchah.
The Torah is taken from the aron
kodesh and three people are called up. The reading
is from the portion of Vatchanan, beginning
with the verse (Devarim 4:25) It shall be when you
bear children, which speaks of the destruction of
the land. A chapter from Yirmeyahu (8:13-9:23), which
speaks of the Destruction, is read as the day's haftorah.
After
the Torah reading, Kinot are recited which are
followed, in some communities, by the repetition of
the reading of Eichah -without a berachah.
Afterwards, we say Ashrei, skip la-Menatze'ach
since the Ninth of Av is referred to as a mo'ed
- a holiday - and proceed with U'Va
L'Tziyon. Within the latter prayer, the verse "And
this is My covenant" is omitted.
Some
communities have the custom that when the first person
is called to the Torah, he quietly says Baruch Dayan
ha-Emet -"Blessed is the True Judge"
[without mentioning the name of G-d] - the blessing
generally recited upon hearing of a death or of very
bad news, immediately prior to reciting the requisite
berachah on the Torah reading.
- When
a brit milah occurs on Tisha b'Av, it is performed
after the recitation of Kinot and the wine is
given either to a small child or to the mother of the
baby. If the Ninth of Av falls on Shabbat and the fast
is therefore delayed until Sunday [and the brit is on
Sunday], then after midday the father, the mohel,
and the sandak may change into clean clothing
and may also eat. A large festive meal is held only
that night, however.
- Some have a custom of visiting
the cemetery on the Ninth of Av. The elders of Jerusalem
used to walk around the walls of the city so as to awaken
a sense of pain by seeing the ruins of the city.
- It is customary to give charity
on every fast day, for our Sages have said that the
reward for the fast comes through the charity that is
given to the poor on that day.
Minchah
At
minchah, we don the tallit and tefillin
and read the portion of Vayechal (Shemos 32)
followed by the haftarah of Dirshu Hashem
(Yeshayahu 55:6-56:8) as on every fast day.
In the Shemoneh Esreh the Nachem prayer
is added to the blessing of Boneh Yerushalayim and
Anenu is added to the blessing of Shome'a
Tefillah. Why is Nachem added in Minchah
rather than in Shacharit? Because it was
in the afternoon - at the time when Minchah
is recited - that the Beit haMikdash
was set afire [and it continued to burn until the
end of the tenth of Av]. Others say that the reason
for the omission of Nachem during Shacharit
is that in the morning one is considered to be like
one whose dead relative lies before him unburied, that
is, he is not receptive to words of consolation. We
therefore wait to say Nachem until Minchah,
when a person is capable of being consoled.
- People
who are ill, or minors, who eat on the Ninth of Av,
nevertheless recite Nachem at Minchah. One
who forgot to say Nachem or Anenu does
not repeat Shemoneh Esreh.
The night following the Ninth
of Av
- It is customary to wash one's
hands at night, when the Ninth of Av is over, since
in the morning of the Ninth of Av, one was permitted
to wash only until the joints of the fingers.
- As
mentioned earlier, if the Ninth of Av falls on a Sunday,
and as a consequence the Havdalah blessing over
wine was not made at the end of Shabbat, it is
made at the end of the Ninth of Av. We recite Havdalah
over wine - even though it is customary to
refrain from drinking wine until after midday on the
tenth of Av, since most of the Sanctuary was actually
destroyed on the tenth. When making Havdalah, we
recite only the berachot on wine and Ha-Mavdil.
The berachah on the candle is omitted since
it was said after Shabbat, and is pertinent only then,
for fire was created on motza'ei Shabbat. The
berachah on spices is also omitted, for that
berachah too is pertinent only at the end of
Shabbat, when we give strength to our soul which mourns
the loss of the additional soul which departs with Shabbat.
A Kiddush
Levanah [the sanctification of the new moon] is
recited immediately after Ma'ariv following the
Ninth of Av. However, some people do not wait until
the Ninth of Av and hasten to perform this mitzvah as
early in the month as possible.
One
should refrain from eating meat, drinking wine, bathing,
or cutting one's hair until midday on the tenth of Av.
The Talmud refers to Sages who would fast on both the
ninth and the tenth of Av. However, if the Ninth of
Av falls on a Thursday - in which case the tenth
would fall on a Friday - one may wash and cut
one's hair in the morning in honor of Shabbat.
If
the Ninth of Av falls on Shabbat, in which case the
fast is delayed until the tenth, then, although one
may not eat meat, drink wine, or recite She-hecheyanu
at night after the fast, one may do so immediately
on the following morning, without having to wait until
midday. One may wash, shave, and cut one's hair on the
night after the fast.
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